Relationship Quiz

Is he or she the right one for you?

How healthy is your relationship? How do you know if someone is the right person? Ask yourself the following questions:

  1. Are they committed to achieving their future goals and dreams?
  2. Do they have similar values as me? Can we talk about our values openly?
  3. Do I like their friends?
  4. Does my family like them?
  5. Can we talk about our differences or problems when they arise?
  6. Do they use tobacco, alcohol, or other drugs?
  7. Are they ever physically or emotionally abusive?
  8. Do they respect my decision to stay abstinent? Do they push me to go farther sexually than I’m comfortable with?
  9. Do we have fun together? Do we enjoy spending time together?
  10. Do we enjoy learning about each other’s interests, likes and dislikes?
  11. Am I attracted to the whole person, or is the attraction only physical?
  12. Do I admire and respect them as a person?
  13. Can I be myself when I’m around them?
  14. Do I trust them?
  15. Do we compliment and encourage each other?
  16. Are they mature or immature?
  17. How do they handle:
    • personal tragedy?
    • personal conflict?
    • money?
    • important decisions?
  18. Do they make me feel:
    • understood?
    • accepted?
    • guilty?
    • encouraged?
    • nervous?

As you get to know someone, keep these questions in mind. A person’s true character is revealed over time. That’s why it’s important not to move too quickly. Focus on building a friendship and you’ll soon discover if someone is worth dating or not.